Have the right motives.
Have the right time.
Have the right words.

Fourth, have the right response. Ask yourself these three questions.

1. No matter what my pastor gives me as an answer, will I have the right attitude?

2. Will I still be loyal?

3. Will I still be grateful?

This is going to be tough, especially when things don’t go your way. However, the way you answer these three questions will reveal a lot about your heart. Never forget that God is in control. Your job is to submit to your pastor (Prov. 21:1). If you can’t submit, it’s time for you to move on.