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Seuss and the Bible: Horton Hears a Who!

Last week, I went and saw “Horton Hears a Who!” in the theatre. I was reminded how much Dr. Seuss reminds me of Biblical themes. So, over the next few weeks, I’ll be writing about the Seuss series and some of the things we can learn from it.

We’re going to start with Horton Hears a Who. We’re going to use quotes to make our points.

1. Children matter, just like adults.
“A person’s a person, no matter how small.”

OK, I know I’m kind of preaching to the choir on this one, but it’s something important to never forget. Every child from the youngest baby to the oldest preteen are just as important as the “grownups”. While we can’t use the same approaches with kids as we do adults, they have an amazing ability to understand God and who he is. Remember that they aren’t stupid! Continue reading ‘Seuss and the Bible: Horton Hears a Who!’

The most awesome birthday cake ever!

I have a lovely aunt who makes WONDERFUL cakes.  For my birthday I wanted a Macintosh shaped cake.  She lives in Arkansas, however, so I didn’t get my cake until we came down on Spring Break this week.  However, as you’ll see in the first picture, she tortured me with a less impressive decoy cake with a real apple on top.  The real cake was much better though!  Check out the pictures below:

Now, don’t you wish you had my aunt?

Out of the mouth of babes

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One of our bus kids came up to me Sunday morning before kid’s church and handed me an envelope. I asked little Aubrianna what it was. She said, “It’s the song I wrote for Jesus.” I told her that was special, slipped it into my pocket and forgot about it until this morning. You can click on the image to the left to see her song.

Here’s her song (complete with misspellings and all):

Keep dreamin in love I see
Jesus love down in your hart
Jesus we love you with
the prase we give you
We worship you
Your all the things I need
Your eyes are perficked dear Jesus
Thank you for every thing
You have done we love you

Isn’t it great that God loves our worship? Even worship from an eight-year-old that can’t spell the word perfect.

Lord, teach us to worship you with the spirit and the heart of a child. Forgive us when we make worship more than it should be. Help us to simply say, “I love you.” Thank you for the opportunity to minister to kids. Amen.

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6. Be A Better communicator

Because you may not be able to communicate with your pastor or other staff members when you need to, learn to communicate by writing notes, emails or memos. Put up mail boxes or files for your key leaders and coordinators, have a worker website or use an email blast program. You’ll find that many things you usually have to have meetings about can be handled by putting the info in writing. Also whenever you do have a discussion in the hallway or in passing, followed it up with a memo or email. You’ll also find that written communications reduce the chances of things being forgotten or left undone.

Another tip is not to always approach your pastor with problems and questions, but rather share with him possible solutions and answers to the challenges you’re facing. Turn in a progress report to your pastor even if he doesn’t ask for one. Let him know your attendance, growth, number of salvations, and other things relating to your ministry. It’s always a smart thing to keep your leaders in the know!

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5. Time management is a must

Because your time is shared between many different areas and because you want to maintain your priorities in the right order, time management is essential if you are going to see maximum results from the time you have to give. There are three basic steps to effective time management:

Make a list of things to do.

Be sure and put them in order beginning with the most important or critical to the least important.

Mark off the things you’re accomplished..

Then all the things that you did not get around to doing will be the first things on your list for tomorrow. This leads to the final step.

Keep accurate records of how you spent your days.

When I started writing down how long it took me to get a task done, I saw what I was going to have to delegate. I also started to see if I spent the time that I had wisely. By reviewing how you spend your day, you can see what adjustments you have to make to get the job done.

I’m in the habit of reviewing my day and making a list of what I need to accomplish tomorrow before I go to bed. This helps me sleep better because I know what I need to get done when I face the new day. It’s easier for me to rest, knowing l’ve got a plan for accomplishing what’s required of me.

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The next priority is your family

If you reach every child or young person in your city and your own children’s needs are being overlooked, you’re a phony and a hypocrite. We must do all we can to make sure our family comes before our ministry. When you’re at your busiest is when you probably need to get away for a day or so.

Have a date with your spouse and do something with just you and your children. Your children have to share you with the entire church, but they won’t mind it as much if you make special times to be with them, even if it’s just a special lunch or dinner.

Don’t ever forget that Father God established the home as the first institution—even before the church. Part of this priority is providing for your family. Two things all families have to do are eat and pay bills. If you have to work outside the church to do this, then you are not doing something bad. Your ministry comes after you have worked to provide for your family.

You may ask, “But how can ministry advance if it’s third?” Remember, it’s not your ministry, it’s the Lord’s ministry. He is also the one who causes it to advance.

You also have to face the fact that you just can’t do everything. If you are not on full-time staff, you must learn to delegate. The more people you get to help you carry a heavy object, the easier it is for each person. As the ministry grows and calls for a bigger demand on your time, you must learn to recruit and delegate.

Moses found himself in the same dilemma. In Exodus 18:17-26, we are told of the godly counsel that Jethro gave his son-ill-law Moses. Jethro advised Moses to appoint trustworthy, godly men over the people. He also told Moses to recognize their abilities. Some could handle 10, some 50, and some many more. But he instructed him to spread out the load and not to try to carry it all himself. You must also learn to delegate and find help so that you can keep your priorities in the right order.

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Before I was on staff full-time, I thought, If only I were full-time, I could devote all my time to young people, but that was far from true at my first full-time position. Yes, I got to work with young people, but I also got to work with old people. I was put in charge of the shut-in visitation. I got to visit the hospitals and minister to all ages. I got to minister to the carpet and on many occasions function in the ministry of maintenance! I got to cut the grass, clean the windows, clean out the storage buildings, mop up stopped-up toilets and drains, serve lunch to the kids at the daycare, and lock and unlock the buildings. When I added all those duties to what I wanted and needed to do to minister to young people, I found myself saying the same thing as when I worked another job “I don’t have enough time to spend in ministry to young people!”

Many youth and children’s workers who work another job have more time to spend in actual children’s or youth ministry than those who hold full-time, salaried positions on the church staff.

Acts 18:1-3 tells us that even Paul the great apostle, missionary, and writer of most of the New Testament had to work a trade to make a living. He was a tentmaker. This was not a setback or a hindrance to this great man of God, but something He was proud of and glad he could do so that he was not a hardship on anyone. Having to make tents sure didn’t seem to slow Paul down in the work he did for God.

When I was a senior in Bible college, my pastor approached me about helping out at the church. He knew that my major was in Christian Education and that in a few months I would have a degree. The church needed help in this area. They were in the midst of a building program and were going to change their departmental approach to Sunday School (nine classes for toddlers, nursery, and adults) to a graded program which would include a total of 22 classes So I found myself with three months to design classrooms, find teachers and helpers for 12 new classes, as well as start a children’s church while I was finishing up a degree, working a job, and playing in a traveling Christian band.

My pastor didn’t promise a position. He didn’t promise a salary.He told me this “I’m going to give you a title and turn you loose. If you make yourself so valuable that lore can’t live without you, then I guess late can’t live without you.” That’s all I needed. I didn’t realize that he was acting on a spiritual principle that a man’s gift will make room for him. As you’re faithful where you are and develop and use your gift, you can expect promotion. God is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. If you are faithful in the small things, you Sill be made a ruler over much. It’s not your title or position that gets the job done, it’s your faithfulness and using the gifts within you diligently that really count.

The only nay you can keep all the hats you must wear balanced when you are juggling a career and the ministry is to make sure your priorities are in order and keep them that way.

Before you can do something you must be something. Godly character comes from a personal, daily walk with God. You can’t really knower someone unless you spend time with them. You can never know God unless you are spending time with Him. No matter how busy you find yourself, you must put the Lord first.

Over the years, I’ve noticed that people in ministry are a lot like people who have a checking account. There are those who make a deposit first and then write checks. Then there are the other folks who write checks and run to the bank to make a deposit to cover the checks they’ve just written. It’s the same way in ministry. We must give out from what we have first deposited. We must get in the habit of ministering out of our overflow.

Being A Full-time Leader on Part Time Pay-Part 1

“Oh, if I were only full-time at the church, then I could accomplish great things in ministry ” This has been, and still is, the cry of Christian workers all over the United States as well as the world. But being full-time in the ministry just might not be what you always dreamed it would be.

Let’s stop for a moment and take a realistic look at the ministry. A pastor once told me, “things are never as bad as you think they are and you’re never as Wonderful as you think you are, either .” At my very first ministry opportunity (it was not a full-time position by the way), I learned right away that if I was going to make it in ministry, I would have to learn to look at challenging situations realistically. It didn’t take me long to learn that when someone told me half the church was upset with me for something 1 had done, I needed to find out for myself the accuracy of their statements. Most of the time “half the church” translated to “three people ” This meant there were 197 in the church who were not mad at me.

In other affords, compare apples to apples. In doing this, you may just find out that you don’t have things as rough as you think. I remember another time shortly after accepting a new position that I became very frustrated because my last church seemed so much more organized than the first one. Then my wife reminded me what it was like at my old church after the same amount of time and I saw that rather than being behind, I was really ahead. Looking at things realistically will keep you from falling into the traps of the devil. You see there’s really no such thing as a part-time Christian leader. What that really means is that you work for the Lord full time but you have to depend on something other than the ministry to make a living

In the days to come we’ll look at seven keys to keep you out of the “I’m-just-part-time” trap.